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We tell ourselves stories in order to live. 💖

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Mar 14, 2023Liked by Nicci Kadilak, Reena Kapoor

Excellent! The 1st step is the most important and like you rightly stated - "Be there. Listen. Acknowledge what the person is feeling without getting judgy."

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Mar 14, 2023Liked by Nicci Kadilak, Reena Kapoor

WOW! It made a LOT of sense. Alas, in our over-polarized world (where each one of us thinks that she has a monopoly on deciding what is right and what is wrong for not just herself but also others around her) there seems to be an acute shortage of empathy. Thank you for writing this essay.

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Mar 17, 2023Liked by Reena Kapoor

Well written as usual. I identify with listening and not become invested in your solutions for them. Sound advice!:)

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